Stuck in the mud or moving forward?

Stuck in the mud or moving forward?

The question as we close out 2008 is, are you stuck in the mud or moving forward? Did you know it is a choice? Sometimes we are deceived to believe that our only choice is to give up, this is not truth!

I sat down this week for breakfast with a dear friend with intentions to set some goals for 2009. As I handed them the papers listing goals and blank lines they turned it over, ordered breakfast and ate. I asked if they wanted to set goals or did they even know where they wanted to head. The response was brief and basically not interested. So much had happened this past year why bother was the mind-set.

I am here to challenge you today, the last day of 2008 to pull your head out of the sand, quit playing ostrich and let’s move forward together. 2008 is just that 2008, we have so much ahead of us in 2009 we must move forward. Time to take a stand, no more buying into the negative mind-set of it’s over just quit, time to take your power back and say NO to the garbage and YES to your power!

So are you ready to step into 2009 with me?

Join me today as Anna Banks interviews me on Strictly Business Radio, topic Making and keeping Powerful New Years Resolutions http://ping.fm/p1vfg

Preparing for next weeks Business Booster Sessions with companies looking to increase productivity & profitability while improving employee moral...interested?

The anticipation is building…

The anticipation is building…

We are almost there, 2009!
I just finished watching the Today’s Show top stories and happenings for 2009. At the end of the show I was exhausted 2008 has been a busy year!

Can you hear the buzz building momentum for 2009? It is in the air, in the universe, and the talk of the town. 2009 is going to be a year of Power for those that choose to embrace it and take action. I challenge you to be one of action over these last few days of 2008 brainstorming and creating a treasure map of success for 2009, I know I am!

Are you ready to take the challenge?

Robin Hardy
Business Consultant, Sales Trainer & Motivational Expert
www.RobinHardy.net

Only 7 Days Left...

Resolutions, resolutions and more resolutions are set then broken or forgotten. What are you planning for 2009? What resolutions are you writing down? Did you put an action plan to the resolution?

Look at your resolutions as a goal or objective for 2009, stay focused and write out your game plan. Look at the winning football teams they all have written plays to make it to #1, they did not just wing it and quit when then plan did not work. If the plan did not work then re-work the plan, sometimes we need to shift in order to succeed. Be willing to take a chance, step in faith and take action.

What are your resolutions or plans for 2009?

Robin

www.RobinHardy.net

Getting ready to sit down to a pot roast then off to Christmas Eve service at 9 PM, Merry Christmas to all of you & an amazingly successful 2009!

The Countdown Begins

Wow! I sat here this morning in amazement we are only 17 days away from 2009! How did we get here, did we do everything we wanted to accomplish in 2008? The biggest question I have for you is are you where you want to be as we close out 2008?

There is so much in the media and surrounding that is telling us why bother it is all negative, however I choose to say no to their mindset. Just like HP and Max Factor said no to the mindset in the 1930's. Are you willing to join me in this stand? It is time today to make a stand and set the intention for the direction you are choosing for 2009. I know 2009 will be a year of power for those willing to put on the armor and play hard and finish the game. Sometimes we need a "cheerleader" on our side to make this happen, someone that will encourage and direct us into that next level of success (you chose the definition of success).

Are you ready to count down these next 17 days with your armor on and ready to play hard? Then I can be your "cheerleader", taking you to the next level in your life!
What do you want out of 2009?

Robin
Empowered Options Coach
www.RobinHardy.net

Interviewing Marsh Engle for Mondays show on Empowering You Radio, an Empowered Journey

Finding Joy Today...

Finding Joy Today…

It was amazing last night we went to a meeting for one of the colleges I teach at and as we drove through some of the local neighborhoods it was amazing to see so many dark homes. So many that have bought into the medias mind-set sending them into a depression. What is amazing is if we ignore the negative garbage in the media and begin to be thankful for where we are today. Many have lost homes, jobs and more and yet there is still Joy and Hope in their life. How is this? This is about a choice to move on, so what if you can’t put hundreds of dollars of gifts under a Christmas tree and give the kids everything they say I want to because the TV commercials have said you have to have this to be cool. What if this year it is a day of celebrating family, those in our lives and the blessings we have today. There is always something to be grateful for…no matter how small.

Our Christmas this year will have no gifts, only a meal with family and friends and great conversations. We have hung our lights, decorated the tree and have chosen to celebrate where we are at…So the question is where do you find your Joy today?

Are you willing to join me in celebrating where you are at?

just finished interviewing Karen James for Empowered Journey Radio beautiful story airing Wednesday http://ping.fm/5zyGU

Happy Thanksgiving...

Happy Thanksgiving…

Can you believe it Thanksgiving is here already? It is amazing that once we pass the 4th of July time increases. Hold on before we know it we will be saying Happy New Years!

This is what was out our window in the RV this morning and it is cold…burrrr!
There is a dusting of snow and lots of clouds, we are hoping for more snow.

As we reflect on today, a day of focused gratitude what are you thankful for? I am thankful for:
My wonderful husband & best friend
My 4 beautiful dogs, my kids
The opportunities available each day should I chose to embrace them
My friends dear to me
Those of you that I have been able to touch your life for the better

I leave you with three questions today as you enjoy the turkey and gravy:

1. What are you thankful for?
2. What are you going to do to make 2009 a phenomenal year?
3. How may I help you achieve your dreams?

A Refreshing Rain...

A Refreshing Rain…

Yes we are waiting with great excitement the coming storm, hoping for snow. We had a little rain this morning and as I walked outside and took a deep breath and it is so clean and fresh right now. The chill in the air and leaves dropping really bring home the feeling of fall, finally!

As we rapidly approach Thanksgiving and the end of 2008, we each could benefit from taking a deep breath, taking in the beauty and begin the process of preparing for an exciting 2009 that is only 37 days away. I want to leave you with a few questions to ponder over the next few weeks:

· What have I learned in 2008?
· What would I change?
· Where do I want to go in 2009?

Calm During Panic...

Calm during panic…

What a beautiful day it is today, better than yesterday. I was here in the RV while my husband drove down the hill to the store. I was enjoying live here in Oak Glen watching the dogs run and play in our spot when all of a sudden things changed. Fire! Yes a fire started here in the camp ground. For those who have never been to Oak Glen, it is a rural mountain area, a lot of brush and trees. First thought panic! Fire! Now what? Tried to call my husband on the cell and of course no service…now what? I took a deep breath put the dogs in the RV and watched. If the fire got closer then pack up the RV and try to drive it out. Thank God it did not get to that point, the fire crew up here is amazing, they put it out and cleared the area in what seemed minutes. An hour later park was back to normal, my husband was back and the park was a buzz with stories. One lady panicked and drove their RV out, her husband came back to the RV gone…imagine that panic. They finally reconnected and all is fine.

So how do you respond to panic, turmoil and trials? Do you act or react? I encourage you as we approach Thanksgiving to stay calm and relax, don’t be the lady who drives off, be the lady who took a deep breath and kept functioning.

How do you handle panic, trouble, trials?
www.RobinHardy.net

enjoying Oak Glen, writing blogs and articles, great inspiration! Plus it is beautiful, quiet and crisp air

A New Attitude...

A New Attitude…

Woke up this morning in beautiful Oak Glen and as I looked around at God’s wonder my eyes were opened. I look at the apple trees loosing their leaves, the oaks & maples turning colors and a crisp 40 degrees in the air. What an amazing site and feeling to breathe in and relax, to really breathe in, deep breaths of clean air.

This is the way we should start each day, especially with the holiday’s rapidly approaching us…starting this week with Thanksgiving. What if you woke up and took a deep breath and started the day with a positive attitude. Placed your feet on the floor asking the question, what amazing opportunity will come my way today?

What amazing opportunity are you seeking or willing to enter your life today?

Just finished interviewing Shann Vander Leek for my show Empowering You Radio to air Dec 15

Robin Hardy-Keeping Joy in Troubling Times

Keeping Joy in Troubling Times Knowing your peace and hope comes from Jesus. What an exciting time we are in today! Many would say that statement is crazy talk however, perhaps their hope is in their home, job or bank account. If there is one thing I have learned in the past few months is those things are not always there, they are not constant and they offer no hope or peace but for a moment. So where are we to find that hope and peace in today? We know the Word tells us that God is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow so my hope and peace really should be in Him that is constant and unchanging. The other lesson I have learned is how do I act or react to the trials of 2008? Beautiful Diva's what I do know is the world is watching us and saying where is this God you believe in, look at you miserable and depressed, what God? When that became a reality in my mind, you know that light bulb moment I realized what I know in my heart had better be played out in my actions. My joy, peace and hope is not in my home, bank account or job it is truly 100% in my precious Father in heaven. Sometimes life throws us lemons and all seems bitter, however if we stir in a little Jesus into the juice it becomes a sweet refreshing beverage that nourishes our souls and calms our hearts. This is a time dear sisters that we need to cling to our Heavenly Father with all our strength, lean on Him and share the joy of the knowledge we will be alright under the wings of the Father in heaven. Will you join me today in the refreashing of our minds, renewing of our hearts and rejoice in the hope we have? If you do not know about this hope please let us know I would love to share my Jesus with anyone desiring a true hope and peace in todays kaos. Be blessed in your decisions to move forward and be a light in a dark world so that others will want what you have! Robin HardyCertified Empowered Options Coach & Inspirational SpeakerTo book Robin to speak at your church or event contact her at:www.RobinHardy.net Robin@RobinHardy.net

Taking Our Power Back!

I sat back this morning reflecting on many dear friends who have this week decided to take their power back from things holding them in bondage. They are experiencing a couple of different emotions as they emerge victorious in taking their life back. Some are feeling strong and confident, while others are scared and weak. Feeling are important to embrace and recognize what impact they are having on you. If you avoid the feeling/emotion side of life you will miss out on so much growth and opportunity.

Those feeling strong and confident are moving into their next place, next level with anticipation of great things happening. Keep in mind this was their choice to move this direction, many had already been in the scared and weak place in their life. My encouragement to all who are experiencing taking your power back with fear and weakness to take a deep breath and move forward anyway. The power you have in moving despite your emotions is life changing. Here are a few ways that will help you move through this new fantastic step you have chosen to make:

• Journal: write down what is going on, experience your emotions, embrace the change
• Breathe: take deep breaths and calm your mind, slow the breathing down and relax
• Music: listen to some positive music, full of life and energy
• Connect: connect with a coach, mentor that will listen as you move through your new journey.

These are all simple ways to begin to embrace this exciting new place you stand in, enjoy it and love the journey you are on...

What have you taken your power back on? (financial, business, relationships, etc.)

Empowered Choices in Challenging Times

Today I had to close my eyes and take a break from all the turmoil in our economy as of late. What we are all hearing in the news can be troubling and even cause fear. However, we always have a choice as to how we deal with challenging times. Many panic, get depressed and even give up however, some like you and I choose to find options and re-invent ourselves.

My new word for this last part of 2008 is Re-Invent, the process of embracing change or challenges and choose to Re-Invent or Re-Create what we do. This is a very powerful step to take in your life. Do you know the Walmart was not created overnight, Sam Walton failed at 10 businesses before Walmart became a household name. So take a deep breath and ask yourself one question...

What do I choose today? To Re-Invent myself and become an Empowered Unstoppable Individual or give up?

Join me on www.RobinHardy.net to learn more about the 6 Pillars of The Empowered Unstoppable Individual, it will change your life.

So what will you choose today, I'd like to hear from you...

Robin Hardy Appears on the Marsh Engle Show!

Wow! What an incredible day!
I just finished being interviewed by Marsh Engle on Voice America Women Radio!
What an exciting interview as I shared about the 6 Pillars to an Empowered Unstoppable individual. These are the 6 key elements each Empowered Unstoppable individual possesses. This was an incrediable hour interview on the top syndicated Internet Radio Show!!!
You can hear me on TheMarshEngleShow.com

Interested in learning more about the 6 Pillars? Are you ready to step into your next level?
We need to Chat!

Robin Hardy Appears on The Wright Place Television Show

What a fantastic Sunday I had!!! I spent the afternoon in Manhattan Beach being interviewed on The Wright Place Television at the Bridging Hearts & Marketing Conference in Los Angeles! Dr. Leticia Wright interviewed me on her show before a room of small business owners. Dr. Wright interviewed me on being an Empowered Options Coach and what it was. What a fantastic opportunity to get media exposure with the show.

What a receptive group as they learned how hiring me, Robin Hardy, as their Empowered Options Coach they could launch their business to the next level effortlessly and naturally. Are you ready like they were to step into your next, remove the walls and dance with opportunity? If you have said yes, we need to chat!

Give careful thought to your ways...

This morning as I was doing my devotions I was reading in Haggai 1:1-7. Twice in this was said "Give careful thought to your ways..." As I thought about this it became clear why sometimes we work so hard at something with no results and once we reconsider or reinvent ourselves things change.

In our economy today we have to evaluate where we are and in some cases reinvent ourselves. This is the exciting part of life's journey when we get to reinvent our self! So today as you ponder the journey you are on and give careful thought to your ways, what you are doing, the direction you are moving in...do you need to reinvent yourself?

How would you reinvent yourself today?

Are you a log or a growing tree?

Today as I began the to do list and reviewed recent circumstances which I now choose to call new opportunities I realized I have two choices, I can be a log or a growing tree?

As I pondered the two and their impact on the world I realized I choose to be the growing tree however I have log moments. As a log we sit and do nothing except give a place for mold, fungus and bugs to grow and thrive. A log day is an opportunity day, as opportunities happen around me I must choose to stretch my roots and dig into the rich soil for nourishment, searching for water and receiving all I can absorb. The key to this is choosing to take the opportunity and seek out the positive aspect to it, no matter how small it may be, find it, embrace it and nurture it.

I see it now coming to life, my growing tree is full of beautiful leaves in shades of green providing shade to passers by and homes for the Robin's nests. What a glorious picture!

I choose today to be a Growing Tree! What do you choose?

It is all about our choices...

I spent an interesting day yesterday with about 350 Foster kids ready to move out of foster care because of their age. We were there to share options so they could thrive and not end up in trouble, on the street or in jail. I was amazed in the class I taught, out of 55 16-18 year olds only 3 really cared about the future and right choices. The rest were there as one youth put it "to hang out with his homies". What happened here?

You know even as adults we have to make choices, to which each either has a reward or a consequence. Sometimes we make our choices on emotions, peer pressure or fear. The key is to understand that we need to be aware of our choices, and not bend to outside influences. One thing most people do not realize is the consequenses to our choices is paid by you the decision maker not the peers that pushed you in that direction.

What choices have you made without the pressure of others? What were your results?

Creating an Unstoppable YOU...

What do you consider to be Unstoppable? A Steam Engine, a plane, the news, the spinning world. perhaps life...

Do you consider yourself to be Unstoppable? You can become Unstoppable if you want to, or we can choose to continue to be distracted by things that hold no real meaning or matter to us when you step back and observe the entire picture. How do you see yourself? Are you moving forward and focused on the goal/prize? Think about the Olympic athletes, in order to win the gold they practice for months ahead seeing, visualizing the victory. The day they compete it comes much easier because they can see themselves already a winner.

So what are you focusing on today? How do you see yourself today?
Are you ready for change?

How do you play with your Beach Balls?

I just finished my women's network meeting this afternoon and our guest speaker was BarBara Whorley, great presentation by the way. As I packed up my belongings and headed home to some air conditioning one thing BarBara said kept coming back to my mind...Playing with beach balls.

Okay by now you are saying huh! Beach balls symbolize your inner critic, limiting beliefs and negative self-talk. I am a very visual person so as I heard are you holding those beach balls under the water I began to visualize holding down some of the garbage that has been buried in my head. You wanna know what I have discovered? No wonder I am so exhausted at the end of a hectic day, it takes a lot of energy spent to hold beach balls under the water.

As BarBara described how today she tosses those beach balls in play, what a great visual if we would only let go of the stuff we are wasting our precious energy on that does us no good imagine the energy you can create; a positive, creative, and natural flow can now begin to engulf your life...my life. Today I choose to start playing and tossing those great big beach balls in the air effortlessly and freely allowing my natural joy to explode...

How do you play with your beach balls?

It's all about Your Mind-set...

As I woke up this morning I was in a bit of a panic, it was 9:00 AM!!! How did I sleep so long? As I began to attack myself for getting much needed rest I realized, I went to sleep at 1:30 in the morning...Next!

It is amazing when you stop in the midst and think about it, we have the power to modify our outcomes. It all starts in our minds, if we choose to have a negative (glass is half empty) mentality when we rise in the morning (or evening for swing shift) then we will feed only more of that into our day in everything we do. However, if we choose to be more positive (see the glass half full) we will find the universe will send us more positive. I don't know about you however, I am choosing today to receive more positive flow each and every day, all day long.

I decided this past Monday that I would start my days with ME time, what that means to me is devotional & quiet time, before I open emails, feed the dogs, etc., etc!!! Why do this you may ask? This sets my mind in the right direction as women we almost always finding ourselves trying to multi-task during our busy days. With our minds being the strongest part of our bodies why not have it control your body in a positive way.

The key is positive self-talk or notes and stop beating yourself up each day. We are strong and empowered beings that need to step into that natural power.

What do you do to create a positive mind-set each day?

Create Your P.M.S.

It is cruicial that you create your own P.M.S. in order to give yourself direction and focus! Okay you are looking at this wondering what the heck, create PMS??? I just had to toss that out your direction, we just finished a workshop for the Federal Government Women Employees and we used P.M.S. instead of writing out Personal Mission Statement and it was a hit!

"A Personal Mission Statement (PMS) is a declaration of ones passions, dreams and visions for their future both personally and professionally. A Personal Mission Statement will reveal direction and focus." Do you have a Personal Mission Statement? If you do not it is time to create one. You will identify if you are currently pursuing what you were meant to do with your life. The key to a strong PMS is to identify what changes needed to be made to put yourself on the right path to your dreams and passions. Are you willing to make the changes needed?

I will leave you with 5 key steps to applying your PMS to your life:

1. Identify the areas that need changing
2. Be willing to change, embrace change
3. Own your mission, make it yours
4. Be accountable
5. Create a positive circle of influence

The key is to do it now! How has your Personal Mission Statement changed or empowered your life?